It is with great sadness that we announce the passing of the leader of our band. Stan Janes passed away suddenly at Brampton Civic Hospital on Tuesday, February 7th, 2023 at the age of 67. Stan leaves behind his treasured best friend, partner and band mate of 25 years Diane Tolstoy, adoring children Errin Janes, Sasha (Natasha) Tolstoy, Jolene (Braden) Coles, Kim (Mike) Janes, Anton Tolstoy, and Liane (Jon) Janes. Proud grandfather to Sarah, Caitlyn, Naomi, Stella and Nathan. Predeceased by his mother Beverly and step-father John, Stan leaves behind his father Stanley Sr., step-mother Lois, siblings Joanna, Danny (Lucie), Kimberlye (David), Dawn (Jim), Jim (Janice), Gloria, Duane (Cindy), Cindy, a giant family and many friends especially his best friend Dave “Bart” Bartnik. 67 years doesn’t seem long enough…but Stan packed a huge life into those years. He was a self-taught gifted musician… sharing his craft in local bands, living room jam sessions and countless duets with Diane. He could be found tinkering in his barn, brewing up all sorts of concoctions, hunting and enjoying the outdoors. He was a notably talented handy-man who would find a way to repair and restore anything that crossed his path.
Cremation has taken place. A celebration to share stories and songs will be held at the Niagara on the Lake Community Centre, 14 Anderson Lane, Niagara-on-the-Lake from 11am – 3pm on Sunday, February 12th, 2023. All are welcome. A memorial will be held at a later date in Caledon, Ontario.
In lieu of flowers donations to the Canadian Music Therapy Fund would be appreciated by the family. Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
Carl Smith
I’m glad he got his calf that hunting season we hunted together
He was a talented Musician and a good man
Farewell music man rest in peace
Barry Watkins
He sure will be missed Loved that guy Enjoyed his music and jokes And his huge smile Miss ya buddy Forever in my thoughts
Cynthia Luciano
Condolences to Diane and Stan’s family. He was a wonderful, funny and talented soul and friend. He will be very missed. Love and hugs. Xo❤
Mandy Z.
So very sad to hear the news of Stan’s passing. My heart goes out to Diane and his family. Stan was a great man that did so much for our community, even if you didn’t know him personally, he would have touched you in one of the many things he was part of.
Connie & Rocky Mezzone
Sending condolences to Diane and Stan’s family. So sorry for your loss.
Peter Brulé
Stan, your smile, your laugh, your sense of humour, the twinkle in your eyes, your voice, your talent and skills, your generosity of time and substance, will be missed.
Your passing was too soon.
You lived a full life. This world will be a different place without you.
Lots of love
Peter and Geneviève Brulé
Justine
Sad to hear of Stan’s passing. He sure seemed to enjoy his life and made the most of it. A very warm person . Condolences to Diane, Stan’s family and friends.
Jac &Carla Calmes
Thinking of you and family during these difficult times. Ours prayers are with you and yours.
Dennis Mcintaggart
I am very sorry to hear about Stan, he was a great friend and a good man. Warm wishes Dennis and condolences to Diane and family.
Barbara and Robert Downey
Condolences to Diane and Stan’s family, May he rest in peace
Bruce Forbes
Stan was bigger than life. Although I knew and met many in the music industry, no one was more fun to perform with! A concert on the beach in El Salvador with Diane and myself was a classic. Stan was and always will be my friend forever. Have a Black Russian for me bud. We are going to miss you so much.
Our sincere sympathy to all family members (especially our close friend Diane). May all the good memories help us rebound from our sorrows and loss.
Bruce Forbes and Deborah May-Forbes
Cam Lindsey
Diane and family. Sorry for your loss. Condolences to all.
Kavin
I’m very sorry to hear about Stan, he was a very good friend, he taught me a lot and always smiling. He will always be remembered as a legend in our industry. Rest easy buddy.
Sonya Smith Keith
The Smith and Keith family send our deepest sympathy and condolences to the entire family. We are sending our thoughts and prayers your way ❤️.
Lynda Hawton Kitamura
Dear Diane, my sincere condolences to you and your family. Stan and you had a wonderful joie de vivre and I couldn’t help but smile and feel welcomed in his presence and yours. May the good memories give some comfort at this sad time and warm your heart always.
Mareg Jones
My heartfelt condolences to you Diane and your family. I first met Stan about 15 plus years ago when I went out for my first night as an Operation Red Nose volunteer. He was funny, kind, charming and appeared organized (a big plus in my books). He definately was an asset to the Caledon community and will be missed. Hang tight to family, friends and your many years of memories as in them you will find the strength to face the hardest of days that lie ahead. Know that our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Marolyn Morrison
We are so sorry to hear of Stan’s passing. We offer our most sincere condolences to Diane and family.
We have such wonderful memories of Stan and Diane entertaining and just being friends who shared their happiness. A few weeks ago I came across a picture of Stan dancing with me and Diane laughing at a Home James event. He will be missed.
David Kostynyk & Family
Our family extends our deepest condolences and thoughts and prayers to Diane and, family. Stan was such a kind and caring man. We will miss his Booming Voice and Huge Smile.
Doug & Trish Frost
Trish and I are very sorry to hear of Stan’s passing. We knew he played a huge role in Diane’s life and of all around him.
May the music play on!
Harold and Wanda Janes
So sorry to hear of Stan’s passing.
We have so many great memories while volunteering at first Operation Red Nose and then Home James. Stan was always quick to spark up a conversation.
Although everyone thought we were related it was always fun seeing the disbelief on their faces when we would say we both lived in Bolton, we never even knew each other before Operation Red Nose. A great man gone way to soon. RIP Stan, you will live on in our hearts and fond memories.
Harold and Wanda Janes
Allan Squires
My thoughts and prayers are with Diane and the extended family as I reminess over so many great times at Operation Red Nose and later Home James Caledon. RIP dear friend, you will be missed in this town.
Douglas Fleck
Dear Dianne and all the family. Our sincere condolences to you all. Many fond memories and fellowship especially during Operation Red Nose and Home James. Stan will be missed. Taken far too soon. Take care. Our thoughts are with you all at this difficult time. Douglas and Gail
Bernadine Tompkins Lutes
So sorry to hear about the loss Stan, husband, father, grandfather and friend. All his family and friends will always remember his kindness, generosity, and his music . My prayers and thoughts are with you.
Omar Jervis
Sleep in perfect peace my brother. My condolences to your family God makes no mistakes.
George and Julie Lucas
Dear Dianne and all the family. We are shocked and saddened by his sudden passing. We offer our sincere condolences to you all. His wit and talent will be missed by all that new him. Our thoughts and prayers are with the family.
Ruth and Ed Broeders
To say we were shocked and saddened by Stan’s passing is an understatement. We knew him for about twenty years and shared many misadventures with him. Camping trips in their RV, going to concerts, listening to him “noodle” on his guitar, starting up Operation Red Nose, organizing the Bolton Rotary Ribfests were among the many fun times we had. He will be sorely missed. Our sincere condolences to Diane and the family.
Nicole
I will miss you at the Starline shop Stan. Your knowledge was great and your grumpiness EPIC! I loved our often heated but fun debates on almost anything we spoke about. My condolence to your family and loved ones.
Julie Lucas
Diane my heart is with you and all of the family. Stan was an amazing person, I always enjoyed anytime I ever was lucky enough to have with Stan. He will be remember fondly by me and my family.
James Miller
Dianne…Am so sorry to hear about Stan. Him and I formed the first duo he was in back in ’79….Miller’s Falls.
Talented, popular with the fans we had in Niagara, and a lot of fun to be around. The memories I have with Stan
playing music, appearing on ‘Du Murier Search for Stars, …riding our motorcycles…will never fade….
Always in my heart…Jimmy Miller
Dean Minakakis
Stan the Man! I’m so saddened to hear that you’re gone brother. You were the most amazing mentor to me when I joined USS. What I learnt from you over the 5 years I worked with you was amazing. Not to mention the lunches & laughs we had. Everybody knows how great of a person you are. Love you bro!
Joe & Grace Rinaldi
Dear Diane & Family
I hope you know how much you meant to Stan, who managed to weave threads of your stories into his conversations with us. He always spoke of what’s close to his heart and mind, and I credit feeling like I know you better for it. Because, no matter how insanely busy it got at work, he made time for the things that mattered. And that’s one of the incredible things about Stan: he makes you feel like you matter.
And Stan certainly matters a great deal to a great number of people because he touched many lives. Not many can claim to leave a legacy like he has, and Stan didn’t even have to aim for it. He simply did.
His legacy of kindness, warmth, wit and humanity is a beautiful inspiration & the memories of him are fondly remembered and cherished.
We are privileged to have known him, and are deeply sorry for your loss.
You are my Sunshine, Stan. You made me happy when skies were grey.
I miss you greatly.
Fabianne Murua
Stan will always be one of the most important persons in my life. Since I was his exchange student host/daughter 17 years ago, my life changed. He always made sure I had a good time and looked after me. We made a lot of memories. And for that, I will always be grateful. He will always be missed. I will never forget our times together. Always in my heart.
And for Diane, know that I’m here and I hug you from distance. You have gained an Angel in heaven. I love you so much and I’m so sorry for this.
Len Stevano
Diane and family,
I send you my sincere condolences for your loss. I was reading these messages and they brought back a lot of great memories. He was a wonderful human being. All of them speak to his sincerity, kindness, talent with a guitar or cooking instruments – I loved his chili & specialty wines, his sense of humour and love for life. He will be missed.
Murray Stewart
Dear Dianne
Sorry I am “running late ” .I was so shocked to hear of Stan’s Passing and am so sorry for your loss .Please accept my sincere condolences as you deal with days without Stan. Thankyou for your many moments of entertainment .I trust those memories will be a help as you deal with your days without Stan. I think of your “many musical moments” !!
Sincerely
Murray