Peacefully, at her home, on Tuesday, January 17, 2012, Audrea Emily Wideman, Bolton, in her 42nd year, beloved wife and best friend of Mike Wideman. Adored and loving mommy of Luke and Tyler. Loving daughter of Audrea and the late Samuel Frizell. Dear sister of Sam and his wife Kellie, Andrew and his wife Karen. Cherished aunt of Connor and Jamie. Loving daughter-in-law of Elvin (E.J.) and the late Barbara Wideman. Dear sister –in-law of Dawn and her husband Neal Costin, and Dennis Wideman. Cherished aunt of Matthew and Rachel Costin.
The family will receive their friends at the Egan Funeral Home, 203 Queen Street S. (Hwy. 50), Bolton (905-857-2213) Saturday, January 21 from noon until time of memorial service in the chapel at one o’clock. If desired, memorial donations may be made to Luke and Tyler’s education fund through Egan Funeral Home. Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
Bill and Monika Sergeant
Dear Mike, Luke and Tyler and the rest of the Frizell and Wideman familes:
You are all in our thoughts and prayers as we give thanks for Audrea’s life and the time that she had to share with us. Although she was taken away from us at such a young age, she will be remembered for her caring ways and her love for her family. She will be missed. Sincerely, Bill and Monika.
Kathryn Newell
Audrea will be remembered as a loving mom and one who shared her love of family. My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of remembrance. May she rest in peace.
Love,
Kathy
Arlene and Bob Adamson
Audrea was put on this earth to show us how beautiful Angels look. She was as beautiful inside, as she was outside. I loved sitting and talking with her at family reunions. I will miss Audreas lovely smile and big hugs. All our love and prayers are sent to Audrea’s family. My she R.I.P. Love Bob and Arlene Adamson
Lisa & Aaron Jankowski
Your entire family is in our thoughts, she was such a devoted mother and wife.
Henry Jankowski
My heart bleeds.
Nolan Jankowski
My most sincere condolences to everyone. Her cheerful ease of character was remarkable. I’ll miss her dearly.
Penny Johnson
Audrea is in my thoughts. My deepest sympaties on her family’s loss.
Gillian Harvey- De Melo
It has been years since I have seen Audrea, but never-the-less, I am deeply saddened to hear the news of her passing. We rowed together “back in the day” at Lakeport… she had a wonderful contagious smile and laugh….. God Bless
Sandi Berg
My deepest sadness for you Mike and your family at this very difficult time. You are in my thoughts and hoping you are able to find strength in your faith and from the friends and family that surround you.
Nancy Brenet
With deepest sympathy for your most profound loss.
Nancy Brenet and Jason
Destiny & Graham Walsh
Our thoughts are with you and your family at this time.
Lynn Campbell
I am so saddened to hear about the passing of the beautiful lady Audrea. My heart goes out to everyone in the family especially her mom Audrea, my friend.
Charlene Juras (Neudorf)
Audrea was a classmate of mine in high school and although we have not seen each other since graduating I am so deeply saddened and shocked to hear of her passing. Audrea was so easy going and always had a big smile on her face…..it is comforting to know that never changed. Please accept my sincere condolences. Audrea, Sam and Andrew, you are in my thoughts.
Murray & Denise Buckley (Uncle & Aunt)
Audrea was very special…….. we are so happy we were able to spend some very valuable time with her this past summer. She was a remarkable person who always had a positive attitude even when things were difficult. She was an amazing mother, and a devoted wife. Her life was too short – but she made the world better by just being here. God bless Mike and the boys.
Murray & Denise
Comox, BC
PAT MCCABE
Our thoughts and prayers are with you Andrea and your family at this time.
Ruth Rawsthorne (Blamires)
My heart breaks for your loss. You are all in my thoughts.
Jane Blamires
I was greatly saddened to hear of Audrea’s death and wish to extend my deepest condolences. I had been following Audrea’s struggle on Facebook and admired her grace and dignity. She showed great courage, and concern for others. I cannot imagine how much you all will miss her. She was a wonderful woman.
Eva Molnar
No words can describe the loss and pain I just experienced with the loss of my dearest friend Audrea.
Audrea, I will forever remember your smile, your strong, optimistic and determined personality. Thank you for being there for me during the difficult times. You were such a wonderful friend to me.
I will miss the morning phone calls from you. I will miss sharing thoughts and foods we had together. I will miss the shopping trips and yoga with you. I will miss sharing life with you. I will miss YOU …
You taught me a valuable lesson of being strong in tough times. I thank you for that.
Audrea, you are in my heart with me forever …
Eva
Elizabeth and David Colborne
Dave and I want to say how truly sorry we are in the loss of such a beautiful niece, wife and mummy! Audrea will always hold a special place in our hearts. We want you to know that we will keep all of you in our hearts and prayers!
Betty and Dave Colborne ( Aunt and Uncle)
We want to express our sincere heartfelt sympathy in Audrea’s passing. She fought a tough battle and never let any of us feel that she was not going to make it. I enjoyed our weekly conversations and feel privileged that she was my niece. I will cherish knowing her and the love she had for you Mike and the boys. She will remain in our hearts forever.
Denise M.
Audrea:
I only met you once. I saw you as a mother and a wife.
You chose the parenting path and I could see the concern you had for your children.
You experienced the joy of the “biological mother” and expressed the selfless commitment to children.
It wasn’t easy but it was worth it.
I heard many stories from my uncle and I’m sure you heard many of my stories too.
Just knowing that you were not alone.
And when the news came, the reality was hard to bear
You were strong and kept going forward
Taking care of those little boys
I know the pain was overwhelming.
I know that it was unbearable for Mike to watch.
In a silent moment – you were gone
Many voices will continue to share your stories.
Many ears can hear your laughter.
Nancy Wilson-Kelly
My heart is sad. She was such a wonderful and caring woman. She loved her boys so much. My thoughts are with you at this time.
Janet &Ben VanBerlo
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.We will always remember a happier time when Audrea would pass our house every morning on her bike with a warm smile and friendly hello .She was off to clean windows and had extension ladders strapped on either side of her bike which made it hard for her to ride.She made it look easy and I’m sure got the job done. Forever in our hearts..Love to her family
Sara Stainton
It has been many years, but I am thankful to have known Audrea’s smile and laughter. In university we took a portage trip together. She was the great optimist of the trip. The world was brighter when she laughed with you, and we laughed a lot that trip. Thanks Audrea.
Jodi Templer
Although we never got to meet Audrea, she sounded like a daughter to be so proud of. We send our sympathy to the whole family, and to my cousin Audrea, her mom, who has had such a difficult year.
Jodi Templer and Tony Joseph in Mass. USA
Jeannie Dorling
So Sorry to hear about Audrea!!! She was a fabulous friend and neighbour in Niagara-On-The-Lake when we were kids. My thoughts and prayers go out to the Frizell and Wideman Family..
Catherine Cockings (Bennett)
I am very saddened to hear of Audrea’s passing. Gone too young. Many years have come and gone and although I have not seen her in a very long time, it is still very upsetting. One of my favourite memories is when she asked her Aunt ( I believe) to take me for a ride in her Jaguar. At the time it was my favourite car, and she knew that it would make me happy. that is the kind of person that she was. Always wanting to do for others. My thoughts and prayers go out to all the family at this very difficult time.
Christine Goard ( Worrall)
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Audrea. My thoughts and prayers go out to her family at this difficult time.
Dino Di Fonzo
Mike, I am saddened by your lost . My thoughts are with you and your children in this difficult time.
Mary Louise
I only knew Audrea in the Bolton library. She was such a gentle and caring person and fighting a tough battle with such grace.
My most sincerest condolences to the family,
May she rest in peace.
Lisa Molinelli
My friend said it well:
I hope it helps to know that they are never truly gone, that their spirit lives on and that through joy and love, they can send us signs when we ask for them. All they want to tell us is not to be sad, that they are truly happy where they are and able to be with us any time we need their loving energy. Cling to the love, not the loss.
I met Audrea through the Caledon Parent-Child Centre, and the one thing that stood out about her was the “fire in her belly” even with all of her physical challenges. She was truly a symbol of inner strength and vitality. She was an inspiration to me.
Sending prayers of strength and healing for her family.
Love,
Lisa Molinelli
A Message of Healing:
http://2empoweru.blogspot.com/2012/01/death-does-not-become-her.html
Chris Howden
Audrea was a remarkable person. Jane’s already commented on her astonishing grace after she got sick, and it’s absolutely true. And long before that, her energy, her sense of humour, and her enthusiasm made her a joy to be around. My wife, Jen, and I are so sorry to hear about your loss. Please accept our condolences.
Mario De Medeiros
I am so sorry for your loss, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your children.
Jordan Goss (nee Dunton)
I was so sorry to hear of Audrea’s passing away. I was a schoolmate of both Audrea and Sam at NDSS. I remember Audrea as a very happy person with a good sense of humour. My heart breaks for her family. May all your memories of her remain strong and stay close to your hearts forever.
Jordan
Cathy and Dave Beffort
We are so sad to hear of Audrea’s passing. We met at Seneca College where we had a lot of fun times together. We lost touch for several years and It was so nice when she found us on facebook and we were able to reconnect. Reading Audrea’s updates and notes on facebook continually impressed us. She was so strong throughout her fight and had such a fantastic attitude. It was also great to see how much love and support she had around her. Our deepest condolences to all of Audrea’s family and friends. We live in Calgary so cannot be there tomorrow to pay our respects but know that you are in our thoughts.
Kellie and Sam Frizell
We will miss you, love you, remember you and never let your beautiful boys forget how much their mommy loved them. Mike I don’t know how you did it all these month’s, you have been an incredibly caring husband and father. We will always be here for you, Luke and Tyler.
Kenneth Wakulich
Always to be remembered will be our great times on the water practicing and racing for rowing regattas. Audrea’s infectious laughter and her kind and effervescent demeanor will always be what this coach remembers most. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, and are extended to all your immediate family and friends. God Bless and May You Smile Amongst the Angels Like You Smiled With Us and On Us !
Kenneth Wakulich
Tony and Tiziana Bertucci ( Neighbors #16)
I’m so sorry to hear about your loss. We cant make it today to pay our respects but our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Zoe and Bruce Christo
Dear Mike and family. I met you at One Bedford Rd. and know how hard you worked to make things happen. I know this was a very difficult time and you never changed your willingness to help and get the job done.
Our deepest condolences to you, your boys and your family Mike.
Keep strong and healthy, your boys need you. Bruce and Zoe #1905.
Erin Crawford
I was so saddened to hear about the passing of Audrea. While it has been years since I last saw her, I will remember our times together with great fondness – intense rowing on Martindale Pond and intense laughing when we were doing everything else. My thoughts are with you and your family.
Julie Gribble (Norris)
Dear Mike and boys, Wideman and Frizell families,
Your are all in my heart, thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Even though I only met Audrea on a couple of occasions, it was clear to me that she was a warm, friendly, fun-loving, and gracious woman. I feel blessed that I had the opportunity to meet her. Words seem so inadequate to express the deep sympathy I feel for your tremendous loss. I pray you will feel comforted and gain strength from your happy memories and the knowledge that your friends and family will always hold you close in their hearts.
Pat & Bill McMillan
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and the boys at this time. It was nice of Denis to call us with the information last night. It was nice to have known Audrea. Keep strong and look after those boys. May God Bless you.