Suddenly, resulting from an accident, on Saturday, May 23, 2015, Trudy Norine Barthorpe, in her 36th year, cherished mother of Edward (deceased), Amyee, Alissa, Kaden, and Patrick. Loving daughter of Glenn and Tessa Barthorpe. Loving sister of George. Loved by her common law husband Peter Agapas. Fondly remembered by Andrew Deathe.
The family will receive their friends at the Egan Funeral Home, 203 Queen Street S. (Hwy. 50), Bolton (905-857-2213) Thursday afternoon 2 – 4 and evening 7 – 9 o’clock and on Friday, May 29 from one o’clock until time of funeral service in the chapel at 2 o’clock.
Followed by cremation.
Any and all donations may be made to the trust fund for Trudy’s children at Egan Funeral Home.
Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
Charmaine Groat
I was shocked and heart broken when I heard this horrendous news. My greatest sympathies go out to All of her immediate family.Children especially. If anything I can Do to help you all in these dark times,.please don’t hesitate to ask. A candle is lit for her, and many prayers and deep thoughts and some happy past memories we had shared. Never will be forgotten. Blessed be to all the family and friends.
John Fischer
My condolences go out to Trudy ‘ s family and friends.
Susan Fraser
My deepest condolences to the family, she will be missed by so many, I am glad I got to know her!!!!
I miss you
Adonis, Debbie and the Boys
Our deepest condolences to the family . Lots of love and strength through this difficult time,
Adonis, Debbie & The Boys
Robert and Diane Forrester
Words cannot express the sadness we feel for you dealing with the death of Trudy. Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Jansen family
Our prayers and condolences in this time of grief and sorrow!
Strength and Faith in this difficult time will be paramount. May God bless You family.
Dirk- Karin and Nicole Jansen
Terra Hobart
Our deepest sympathies go to all her family and friends. Our thoughts are with Peter and the children through this difficult time. She was too full of life to go so young and she will be sadly missed.
Crystal Hamilton
My heart breaks for the family, our Trudy was taken way to soon from us…. She was so full of love, laughter, and happiness… and strength … She accomplished a lot in such a short time… our life without her will never be the same …. Love to all , Til we see you again our sweet Trudy…….
Julie Sanelli
To Trudy’s family, my deepest condolences on your loss. I didn’t get the chance to know Trudy all that well. I did have a few great conversations with her though, she did mentioned to me how much she loved Peter and her children.
Lis Henry
My thoughts and prayers are with Trudy’s family and friends at this time. I have felt privileged to be able to keep in touch with her since she was a student of mine at Humberview. This shocking news reaches me while I am away on holiday with family. At times like this all we can do is hold our loved ones close and cherish the memories we have been fortunate to create.
Barb Garcin
I had the opportunity to have a lot of fun with Trudy at a Scentsy event last year. It’s shocking to hear that she has passed so suddenly. My thoughts and prayers are with her close friends and family during this terrible time.
So sorry for your loss. Xoxo
Dave Sourwine & Son's
Was devastated when receiving the call of Trudy’s passing, I’ve been friend’s with the family for years and can’t express the sorrow I feel. She was a loving heart and a good soul, will be missed by many.God bless you sweet Angel.
Daniele Latanville
George and the Barthorpe family please accept my deepest condolences for your loss, please know my thoughts and prayers are with you at this terrible time
Wayne Garrod & Janet Sanderson
Glenn, Tessa & Family,
Please accept our most heartfelt condolences on your loss of Trudy.
We hope these words will bring you some comfort.
You can shed tears that she is gone,
Or you can smile because she has lived.
You can close your eyes and pray that she’ll come back,
Or you can open your eyes and see all she’s left.
Your heart can be empty because you can’t see her,
Or you can be full of the love you shared.
You can turn your back on tomorrow and live yesterday,
Or you can be happy for tomorrow because of yesterday.
You can remember her and only that she’s gone,
Or you can cherish her memory and let it live on.
You can cry and close your mind, be empty and turn your back,
Or you can do what she’d want; smile, open your eyes,
Live and go on.
Jim and Heidi Sant
Our deepest condolences to all of Trudy’s family.
You are all in our thoughts and prayers and may all the memories you have together help you through this very difficult time.
Sophie Kroesen
Trudy, you were so full of light and laughter. It’s been a long time since I’ve seen you but I heard about your growing family and beautiful life through the Bolton grapevine. I wish we could turn back the clocks and I could get to know you better more recently….by your facebook page you appear to have touched and impacted a great many lives. I know that in school, you were always so outgoing, so vibrant and the first one to give someone a hug when they needed it. I imagine that will pass on with your beautiful children. With my most sincerely deep sympathy to your family, Sophie, iyla (my 5 year old daughter) and (Ethan my 4 year old son).
Grampy Stan and Betty Prosser
Peter, Norma and families–know that you are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. May the peace of Christ fill you and comfort you now and always.
Chris and Shirley Temple
Please accept our most heartfelt sympathies for your loss…our thoughts are with all of the the family during this difficult time.
Sharon, Dave, Sean Hodges
George, and Family,
We were sorry to hear about your sister. Our condolence go out to you and the Family.
Your Lunchroom Supervisor. We will be thinking of her in our prayers.
Monica Kroesen
I am deeply saddened to send my heartfelt condolences to George (a former very dear friend of mine) and all of Trudy’s family, children and friends on such a terrible loss.
Deb Metlin (Sourwine)
Glen & Tessa and Family, I am sooo sorry to hear about the loss of Trudy. Time flies so much and life goes on but
hearing that she is no longer with us is truly sorrowful. Her spirit will live on in the lives she has touched, the people that new her, but especially in her children. It has been some time since seeing her, but I will always remember her energy, her spirited conversation and the “Take the world by storm” attitude. She was strong willed and lived life to its
fullest. She may have been here a short time according to our living time, but in Gods world she did so much.
I will remember her and all of you in my prayers, hoping for an ease of heart.
Deb
Larry and Heather Laidlaw
Our condolences to the children and extended families. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Larry and Heather Laidlaw
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our deepest condolene to fhe family and the lord bless you all annette and alex giger manax
Christina Malley
Trudy, I can’t believe u are gone;( I just spoke to you the day before your passing to believe that such a beautiful soul is gone so quick just breaks my heart:( I have known u since macville and I will never forget you helping me when josh was a baby. George I am so sorry for your loss. My heart is with u as u going threw this tragedy:( ps. Trudy I will make sure crystal is ok. I know how close u guys were. Please if u can give her a sign so she can start to heal. See u on the other side my friend xoxo
Steve & Kim Nelson and Family
Loved that girl . she lived life passionately and loved her children with all her heart. we will miss you Trudy we watched you grow and love and laugh. love from us
Mrs. Jonkers-Bordonali
My deepest sympathy to Amyee, Alissa, Kaden and family.
I am thinking of you all at this difficult time.
Molly Comrie
Trudy you filled my heart with love. You will live on forever through your wonderful children.
You are in my heart forever sweetie. I love you so much. I was proud to be your aunt!
My deepest sympathies to her family and friends that will always miss her in their lives.
You are in the arms of an Angel.
Leone Family
Our deepest and most heart felt sympathies to Peter and the Kids and all who loved Trudy. We miss you already Trudy, and loved you very much. May the Lord bless and keep you. May the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you. May the Lord lift up his countenance upon you and grant you peace. All our Love,
Carley, Joe, Gracie, Holly, and Abby.
Mike Mori
I cannot believe that Trudy is gone. She was a very nice, enthusiastic lady who truly cared for her children. I cannot imagine how her family feels. I feel shocked and very sad when I think that I will never see her again. My condolences to her family.
Albita
I extend my most sincere and deepest condolences to Trudy’s family. I had the pleasure of teaching and working with Trudy. Her smile and positive attitude will always remain in my heart and memory. I am truly blessed to have gotten to know Trudy, she really was an amazing person. No one can prepare you for the loss of a loved one, but may you take comfort in knowing that she is at rest and is an angel that will be watching over her family now. She always talked about how much she loved Peter and her kids. Trudy will be missed by many.
Bill Bogers
On behalf of all at Albion Hills Bible Church, I would like to express our deep sympathies. You are in our prayers.
Lynda Mondelli
My deepest condolences to your family. I knew Trudy from high school and we lost contact over the many years. I am truly heart broken to hear she was taken away so soon. To leave behind a beautiful family. She will always be in my thoughts and prayers
Cindy Cancilla & Family
Trudy …
You were my cousin & my friend … We spoke frequently about anything & everything if it mattered or if it didin’t if we shared the same opinion or not ..
You had so much spunk & spirit & a heart of gold in good times & bad times you always found a reason to smile & had the ability to help someone else smile … I am proud to be your cousin & I always will be …
May the angels in the heavens guide you and the lord bless you and keep you safe ….R.I.P Trudy I love and miss you xoxox
Keep your light shining in the heavens above ….
My deepest condolences to the entire family and k ow that you are all in my thoughts and prayers …
rebecca conley
May you rest in peace trudy. My life will not be the same with out you. You were one truly amazing person who will be missed dearly. To your darling hubby Peter and your four beautiful children I’m so sorry for your loss my heart aches for you. A beautiful woman taken too soon. Loving and thinking of you always. Xo the conley family.
Debbie and Ron Aitchison
Glenn,
When Dave told us about your loss our hearts just sank.
Please accept our most deepest sympathies for the loss of your daughter and know that our thoughts are with you and all of the family during this difficult time.
JOANNE ZAMBITO & NICK CANCILLA
Our deepest condolences to Peter and Trudy’s children and aunt Tessa, uncle Glenn and George. No words can express how saddened we are for the loss of our cousin Trudy. Love you girl, you’ll never be forgotten, fly with the angels, you’ll always be in our prayers. Much love and blessings to all of Trudy’s family.
LORETO ROMERO
Our sincerest condolences go to Glenn and Tessa and the rest of the Barthorpe family on the loss of your daughter, Trudy. Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this difficult time.
From all of us at Loreto Romero
Kimberly Houston
“Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal”
My deepest condolences to Glenn and Tessa on the loss of your beautiful daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you and Trudy’s husband and children at this time. Heaven gained an angel.
Kim – Loreto Romero
Dr. Helen Wicki-Nadler and Staff of the Nobleton Veterinary Clinic
There are no words to express the degree of sorrow and despair this tragedy has caused. Our thoughts are with you in this extremely difficult time. Helen and all of us at the Nobleton Veterinary Clinic
Paul Walsh
Glenn, we offer you and your family our deepest condolences at this sad, sad time in your lives. May your past joyful memories of Trudy help lighten your burden of sorrow. I had an opportunity to meet Trudy when Glenn brought her to a Mon Vie meeting in Georgetown a couple years ago and it was obvious she was a loving & caring person by the way she spoke of family and friends. May you rest in peace Trudy.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you and her kids, may God bless and watch over you.
Aggrey King
Deepest sympathy to you Glen & Tessa and to Trudy’s family. I hope you find strength and comfort in the memories.
Rick & Linda Comrie
Our deepest sympathy to you Glenn and Tessa, George and Trudy’s lovely family. We will miss you always. No words can express our feelings of disbelief that this has really happened. We will always remember your laughter, your smile. You will continue on in the lives of your beautiful children. Love to you all in this time of need.
Love Uncle Rick and Aunt Linda
Dr David Grant and Staff
It will be hard to forget Trudy’s abundant exuberance and “Awesome” attitude to her work here. Our entire dental family cannot express how much we will miss her. She was a “different ” kind of dental assistant with so much to give to the profession, offering practical advice, personal comfort to the patients and loved by the entire staff.
Trudy rest in peace and be assured that you left “a good impression” with everyone that crossed your path.
Carol Oitment (Barthorpe)
Trudy will always be in our hearts! May God give you the strength to deal with this incredible loss. Sending love from Carol, Leigh, Colby, Jordon and Dawn-Marie.
Richa Bhangal
It was extremely shocking to hear the news! It is still so hard to accept the truth. Trudy will always be missed. My family extends to you our deepest sympathies.
Love Richa and Pardeep
Bernadette Carr
I only meet Trudy once but will never forget her my deepest condolence to her family and the many friends Trudy had.
Dave Coleman - Cheryl McLaren
When someone leaves us friend family or love.
A void is filled with memories.
May even the not so sweet ones be a comfort.
At this time.
Joleen and Mark Thompson
Hey Trud,
I am going to miss you more than any words can express!
We always had a special bond, we never fought, always got along. When we were little it never bothered you that I wanted to do everything with you and tag along, thank you Trudy for always loving me unconditionally. I will never forget that you were the only one to come and see us after we lost Jessa, Trud that meant the world to me! I love you so very much. Although I am sad that we will be a part for now, I am also over joyed at the happiness you must be experiencing as you finally get to hold Edward in your arms, that thought alone makes me know you are ok! Please hold our angel close and tight until we can all be together again. I know your kids will miss you and Trudy I would do anything for your kids, anytime, anyday! So many memories and jokes that only you would understand….. I’ll leave it at one of our favorites, how about the “bubble lady” lol!!
I will see you again, and I will visit you in my dreams.
Honestly the world will be a little darker without you, but boy will those stars shine a lot brighter!
Love is stronger than sorrow ox
Jo
Carole McKergow
I was deeply saddened to hear the tragic news about Trudy. Sending my deepest sympathy to George, Glenn, Tessa, Peter and family. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time! Fondly remembered from her Macville School days!
STEPHEN AND CARMEN MAISEY, Eric,Matthew and Ryan
Trudy family: We would like to know that we are devastated by the loss of Trudy. She was always so full of life. Our sympathies are extended to Glenn and Tessa, George, Peter Alissa , Aymee, Kaden and Patrick and Andrew. Your families are in our thoughts and prayers May Trudy rest in peace and stay in fondly in our memory forever.
Luis Zermeno
I’m, sorry I can’t atend the service, but my thoughts and prayers are with you.
Luis Zermeno
Katie McMillan
George and family, I am very sorry for your loss. I send my deepest condolences. Though we have not spoken in quite sometime, I will never forget Trudy.
Anita Bol
My deepest condolences go out to you Tessa and Glenn for the heartbreaking and sudden loss of your daughter; to George you have my heartfelt sympathy for being parted with your sister so early in life;and to Peter and children my sincere condolences for having this tragic loss in your family. May the memories she has created with you bring you some comfort at this time. As she dances with the angels may you feel her loving presence in your hearts always. My prayers go out to all of you and all of Trudy’s extended family and friends.
Love, Anita Bol
Cassie Lane
The world is a sadder place now that big beautiful smile has left but never shall it leave our memories. It’s been years since our paths have crossed and I so regret that, you never realize how short life can be. To George and family I’m so sorry for your loss and I’m so so sorry I can’t make it to pay my respects please accept my condolences and apology for not coming but know my heart, thoughts and prayers are with you as I wish I was there with you. RIP my old friend I’m sure if your children have half of you then they have your strength and courage. My deepest heartfelt condolences to them cause this day must be hardest for them I will keep them in my prayers
Ken Graham
George, Glenn and Tessa,
What a shock! I just heard about it and can’t imagine the loss. I spoke to George not that long ago and he brought me up to date on the whole family that I have fond memories from at Ellwood.
Suzanne Schewe
It is with great sadness that we have learned of this untimely tragedy. We knew Trudy as a young teenager who dated our son Daniel. She was a pretty girl, very bright and full of spirit. For Daniel she was the love of his life, as he once told us she was his soul mate. Which he made abundantly clear in his own sudden death. For us her tragic death is a double loss. Our prayers are with Trudy’s family. Her beauty lives on in her children, she can never be far away as she is a part of them. The beauty of the flower may last only in the moment but the essence of that flower can last a lifetime.
God Bless you all,
From The Family of Daniel Edward John Bellefontaine.
Carolyn McKane
Sincerest sympathy to Tessa & Glen, George, Peter & the children. I remember Tessa fondly from our Macville P. S. days & was delighted when she recognized me just a few years ago & chatted on about her children & what she was doing. My thoughts & prayers go to all of you at this sad time.
Julie, Jason and Ryan Ahlborn
Prayers and fond memories are what we have to remember our dearly departed. May the love of family and friends comfort you during these difficult days. Our most heartfelt condolences to the entire family.
Paul& Debbie Carson &family
So very sorry for your loss. Let your memories help you at this sorrowful time. We are very saddened for all of your family.
Bonnie Roberts
Glen, Tessa, and George,
Deepest sympathy to you in your great loss. You are in my prayers.
God Bless.
Bonnie Roberts.
Charlotte Agapas
Dear Peter and Family:
I haven’t known Trudy long, but cannot express my shock upon hearing this sad and tragic news. My family and I send sincere heartfelt condolences to you, the children and Trudy’s family. May time help your sorrow fade. Those we loved and cherished will live forever in memories.
Deepest sympathies
Aunt Charlotte
Rosalie Kanhai
I’m so so sorry to Trudy’s children, Peter, Andrew, her parents and family. I went to highschool with Trudy and we kept in touch while running into each other in Brampton or Bolton. I had no idea of her passing. My deepest sympathy to you in your loss. You are in my prayers.
Anonymous
Hey Trudy!
I know your around. I believe that your around and you see this somehow. Or your hear the thoughts in my head..or your listening to me every night i talk to you. What happened to you was a tragedy. You will be missed by lots of people. Im happy that your in a better place now. We all miss you. We all love you so deeply.
You were and still are such an amazing mom.
We miss you so deeply and will love you forever..
Paul
Trudy
Not a day goes by I don’t stop thinking about you . My heart still hurts knowing you’re not around miss all the conversation we always had . May is always the worst month for me . Is been 9 years already and feels like it was just yesterday that I was talking to you . I don’t think the pain will ever go away it hurts so much knowing you’re gone .
Miss you
Michael Mitter
Her name just popped into my head. Went to school with Trudy in Grade 6 at Macville PS. She was a pretty nice girl. Looks like she managed to keep in touch with the gang and despite her short life made a lot of people happy. Good on her.