Nancy Ingrouville
Posted By Egan Funeral Home On April 5, 2024 @ 1:16 pm In Bolton Area,Obituaries | 27 Comments
It is with great sorrow that we share our sister Nancy passed away on Tuesday, April 2, 2024. It is difficult to find the words to adequately convey the character of a person and why they were so loved, but we will try.
Nancy Jean was born on June 11, 1954 to Andrew and Verna McClure, the eldest of four on a farm, in what was formerly called Elders’ Mills. Growing up, Nancy did the typical farm kid things running the gamut from driving a tractor at an absurdly early age to perfecting baking and entering it in the fall fair. With the “McClure 7” cousins we shared many baseball games in the pasture, trudged along frozen fields for pond skating and together with Grandma McClure’s help became euchre experts. From an early age, summers for the kids were an exciting time with holidays at various cousins’ farms which Nancy particularly enjoyed. Being the eldest, one of Nancy’s responsibilities was to mind her younger siblings. We take full credit for helping her hone her forbearance skills. Nancy had a passion for the arts and particularly enjoyed many forms of music, concerts, live theatre and particularly musicals. She was an accomplished pianist and organist and later in life took up the violin.
The skills that made Nancy a special person were present at a very young age. A compassionate and selfless caregiver. A quiet and self-contained individual with exceptional listening skills. Intuitive and wise beyond her years. An incredible knack to make everyone feel like they were singularly the most important person to her. Nancy unobtrusively catalogued everyone’s preferences and it gave her great pleasure to find that special something or bake that particular dessert and deliver it with a wink and a hug. She had a fabulous sense of humour and the most beautiful belly laugh that will be dearly missed.
Nancy graduated from Wellesley Hospital School of Nursing and was the most fulfilled when providing direct patient care. She received many notes from patients and families throughout her career for her kindness, caring and sincere empathy.
Predeceased by the love of her life – Daniel (Buddy) Ingrouville – Nancy often described the simple pleasures they enjoyed in the same way others might describe a trip around the world. The stops for coffee and splitting a scone, a stroll on the boardwalk, trips to Gaspé, doing crosswords, having breakfast at Shopsy’s or watching ships come into the harbour were just a few of the simple pleasures they enjoyed together. It was difficult for Nancy that COVID prevented a celebration of a life for Buddy and took great comfort in the love and support from the Ingrouville families during that time. Nancy will be dearly missed by Cindy and Miguel Cysneiros, and Daniel and Jane Ingrouville.
Nancy was a cherished Aunt, Great Aunt and integral member of the family to John (Karen) McClure, Jack and Jessica McClure; Jamie McClure; Nancy and Keith Thomson, William, Ruth and Andrew Thomson; Jennifer Mastromattei; Thomas Mastromattei and Catriona Hoy; Bec Rose and Cameron Benns; Colin and Janice Davidson, Jack Davidson; Cameron Davidson and Sheree Unrau, Hailey Unrau, Tucker and Carter Davidson; Michael Cysneiros; David and Dayle Cysneiros; Kaelyn and Ben Perryman, Reggie, Hudson and George Perryman; and Madeline Ingrouville. Nancy is predeceased by her much-loved great niece Grace Thomson. She was incredibly proud of this bunch and loved being a part of their lives.
Nancy leaves a void that cannot be filled yet we have so many wonderful memories to soften the sharp edges of our grief. She loved us all unconditionally. She had many unfulfilled dreams cut short by her illness yet felt they could still be accomplished through her loved ones by simply thinking of how much joy she would have as they go about their adventures big and small.
We believe that Nancy received some of the goodness that she put out in the world and want to thank the many people who bolstered, cared for and sustained her during her illness. Thank you to the lifelong family friends, cousins, second cousins, first cousins once removed, nursing colleagues, neighbours and church friends who sent messages sharing memories, support and words of love. While she often didn’t have the energy to respond, she read them all and gleaned energy, resolve and optimism from you.
Nancy had the dream team of health care providers. If you remember seeing Nancy during her medical care, know that she wrote your name on a piece of paper and tucked it away somewhere hoping one day to write a note of thanks for all that you did for her. A heartfelt thank you to the skilled and remarkable Doctors Ruth Hussman, Reeta Barua and Gary May. Thank you to the extraordinary Michael Garron Oncology team and particularly to Princy, Marguerite and Lida. You were the reason treatment days were bearable. Dr. Lillian Robinson and Dr. Rebecca Colman we will be forever grateful for the exceptional palliative care you provided. To Tandi Briggs from Temmy Latner and all of the nurses and caregivers at Hennick Bridgepoint Hospital you made her last days as comfortable and peaceful as possible. Kate Cook you were a lifeline for Nancy. Thank you.
There will be a celebration of life for Nancy and Daniel (Buddy) Ingrouville at Pine Hills Funeral Centre, 625 Birchmount Road, Scarborough on Tuesday, April 16th. Live streaming at Pine Hills website on the day of service. Visitation with the family at 10 am followed by a service at 11 am and light lunch. Private interment at Vaughan Knox Cemetery.
Nancy spent a lifetime giving to others with donations, time, and deeds and quietly encouraged others to do the same. In lieu of flowers please consider a donation to the Temmy Latner Centre for Palliative Care or Hennick Bridgepoint Hospital Palliative Care Unit at 416-586-8203. Condolences for the family may be offered at www.EganFuneralHome.com
“Just at the moment when someone says, ‘There, she is gone,’
there are other eyes watching her coming and other voices
ready to take up the glad shout, ‘Here she comes!’”
Henry Van Dyke
Doug and Cathy McClure, Tony and Heather Mastromattei and Muriel Davidson
Condolences for the family of “Nancy Ingrouville”
She sounds like the most wonderful woman to be named after. I remember Nancy talking about “Aunt Nancy” years back. Sending your clan love and strength in this difficult time.
Sorry to hear about Nancy. I remember her clearly as if we last spoke yesterday. Though the years have passed quickly. A small group of us from the farms we grew up on. We spent our childhood at Elder Mills Public School, which was 2 rooms. Then we went to Woodbridge High
Like most of, growing up we lose contact of our past and childhood friends..
My deepest condolences to her family and siblings. Her brother Doug and cousin Anne we in my grade 3 ans 4 class at Elder Mills.
RIP Nancy.
My sympathy to the family.. I met Nancy at a confirmation for my niece! Nancy had a nice luncheon for the family. We met at Church most of the time. We became good friends Nancy helped me with my husband Mike He had her laughing all the time although he was in pain . Nancy lost Dan we spoke a lot on the phone because of Covid. She also,, helped me during my illiness. And appointments to Sunnybrooke. She,’ll be missed, She always had a smile and a calming effect on you, Nancy thank you for being my friend. You willed be missed but not forgotten. Rest In Peace Nancy and May Perpetual Light Shine Upon you. Once again, my sympathy to the family Marie, Sergio and Luis Cervantes
Our sincere condolences to the McClure family! So sorry for your loss Doug! It’s never easy loosing a family member!
It was a true blessing to have met “Aunt Nancy” on several occasions over the years. Nancy’s namesake, our dear friend, would light up with any story or experience shared with her dear Aunt. Adventures in Toronto, long talks, shared recipes are only some of the many moments we know you treasure. They were the best of friends who brought one another great joy, and great strength. Nancy’s legacy is one to be proud of, and will not be forgotten. To the entire McClure family, we continue to keep you in our thoughts, and offer our sincerest condolences.
I had the great honour of working with Nancy. She was a special person with a wonderful soul, so sincere and kind and the most humble being. Heaven has gained an Angel, heartfelt condolences to all of her family. Nancy’s presence here on earth will be missed
I was shocked and saddened to read of Nancy’s passing tonight. I didn’t know her well but I know she was a kind and caring longtime friend of my Mother, Laura Miller. Mother spoke of Nancy often throughout her many lonely years after my Father passed. She & Nancy spoke regularly on the phone & in notes written to one another. Nancy always knew the things to say to Mother that were comforting and supportive. After my Mother passed Nancy kept in touch with me each Christmas & included a note in with her card in which she always mentioned Mother. You will all miss Nancy’s humour and loving kindness in the days ahead. Try to focus on the love she gave to everyone so generously; family, friends and acquaintances. She will be missed. She leaves wonderful memories with you.
Doug and Cathy,
So sorry to hear of Nancy’s passing. I do remember her laugh from the visits to the McClure house on 27. May memories of Nancy comfort you and your family at this time.
Don Cameron
I will always remember Nancy for her kind heart and ready smile. She was the most positive person I have ever met and I will miss her sweet face and warm hugs. We’re all better people for having known this lovely woman. Our deepest condolences to Danny, Janie, Cindy, Miguel, and all of Nancy’s family.
I send my sincere condolences during this time of deep sorrow. The Bible gives a comforting hope and promise your loved one will live again on a beautiful paradise earth when death will be no more. (John 5:28, 29; Revelation 21:4)
Nancy was a special woman who will be dearly missed by all those who knew her. She was kind, warm, compassionate, and caring and was always doing for others. She had a quiet strength, a wonderful smile, and always made you feel that your thoughts, questions, or comments were important. I will miss her warm presence and offer my sincere condolences to her family.
Our deepest condolences to the entire McClure family. Knowing her better than anyone else her siblings have composed a lovely obituary which will renew wonderful memories for everyone that reads it. May she rest in peace, free from pain and find comfort after being reunited with the love of her life.
Nancy and I became friends in the 80’s when we took classes to become members of the Catholic faith at Holy Cross Church . Her and Dan were also an integral part of our children’s religious life.
Nancy and Dan were lovely people and it was always a pleasure to see them.
Our friendship has continued throughout the years and we were sad to hear of her passing. Please accept our condolences to her family.
Nancy, Luis, Andrew, Carolyn and Steven Cervantes
The world lost another kind, caring and most welcoming person.
RIP Nancy.
Condolences to her family.
This is a lovely tribute to a beautiful soul whom I had acquaintance with. Nancy was a gentle and calm soul and she did bring warmth and encouragement and a beautiful ray of hope when she came to the clinic .I am sure Nancy you will be watching us from heaven above .I am glad that we have crossed paths and I had the privilege to meet and care for you .You will be in my hearts forever .RIP Nancy .
It was a pleasure getting to know Nancy. She always had a warm smile and made my day at work. Some patients enter your life for a short time but you hold them in your heart for a lifetime. Remembering you always, Margarita
I was very sorry to hear of Nancy’s passing. Nancy was my student in my first year of teaching at Elder Mills. Her empathy, conscientiousness and that belly laugh were wonderful to see/hear in a student. She was a wonderful help as we were in a classroom with grades 1 – 5 and she was always eager to help with the little ones. Nancy made my first year a success!
I remember Nancy, Doug, Cameron and Ann with much fondness. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Thank you all fior a great first year of teaching!
Pamela Mathers (Salt)
Nancy was one of my first close friends along with Shirley Foster. We were inseparable at school and at the local gatherings – 4H and Women’s institute variety shows. I remember walking home after public school and enjoying crafts at her house (even though the milk that went with the cookies was straight from the cow!). Thinking of her family and friends.
My most heartfelt condolences to all of Nancy’s family.
Nancy was a wonderful friend for so many years to me and my mother and father, Ethel and John Connelly. We started out as neighbours and fellow parishioners at Holy Cross Church and developed a very close friendship over the years.
My father and Buddy formed a fast friendship as they were both life long ‘Habs’ fans. I can recall many get togethers for coffee after church on Sunday with nothing but talk of the game the night before! Wonderful memories of those days.
Both Nancy and Buddy were there for me during the difficult days at the end with my parents. Nancy taught me all the little ways to care for them in their last days.
Nancy and I always stayed in touch through all my moves when I left Toronto.
No one could ask for a better friend.
My dear friend, you will always be remembered for the exceptional woman that you were.
You will be missed by everyone who knew and loved you.
Linda Connelly
We always looked forward to family get togethers at Janie and Danny’s but even more so when we knew Buddy and Nancy would be there.
Nancy was the epitome of kindness and calm. She was always there with a beautiful smile, a huge hug and a great sense of humour. It didn’t matter how crowded or loud the room, when you were talking with Nancy, she managed to make you feel like the most important person there.
On the occasion of this massive loss, our deepest condolences go out to all of her family and anyone who knew Nancy and, therefore, loved her.
My condolences to the family. Nancy was such a lovely person and will be greatly missed. She was a distant cousin through the McClure family. I am just returned from France and will not be able to attend the funeral. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Lynda Laceby
Such a lovely, caring and giving person, whose life ended far too soon. I had the pleasure of knowing Nancy and she will be dearly missed. My deepest condolences to Muriel, Heather, Doug and the entire family.
My condolences to Nancy Jean’s family.
Nancy was a second cousin to me plus we attended the same public school- Elder’s Mills.
She always had a kind and bubbly personality.
My deepest condolences to Doug, Muriel and Heather.
Our deepest sympathy to the family of Nancy. We knew the McClure family through our parents, cousins and friends and through public school in Kleinburg. Even though we have not been in touch with Nancy throughout the years, we remember her well and the tribute to her is very well written.
Our prayers to the family.
Our thoughts are with you Muriel, and your family as you celebrate the life of Nancy and Buddy. May your memories provide you with comfort and peace.
I had the pleasure of getting to know Nancy over the past couple of years and can say without a doubt, she is one of the kindest, most compassionate, caring (and funny!) individuals I’ve ever worked with. Even in the tough times, she always found a silver lining or something positive to focus on. Thinking of her family during this time, knowing that they meant the absolute world to her. I’m so grateful she was able to receive all of the love back that she poured into this world. We are all better for knowing her.
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What more can one say after that beautiful tribute to Nancy. She loved well and was well loved in return. So many wonderful memories to cherish which will keep her alive in your hearts forever. Rest In Peace dear Nancy and provide all of you, her loving family strength during this sad time.